Ladies first...
Sex falls under beauty so I must post this.
illustrated by Rupi Kaur
Have you ever noticed when someone has THAT glow it’s sometimes because they probably just got laid pretty good? Orgasms increase blood flow, release oxytocin, and a bunch of other hormones that actually help us have an over all glow up- physically and mentally. As a stylist I have the wonderful opportunity to discuss these intimate details with my clients and I am fortunate to acquire so much knowledge.
Sadly I have met many women who are sexually active, but never had an orgasm and this hurt my heart.
It also made me realize:
1:WHAT THE FUCK ARE SOME MEN DOING OUT THERE?! Why are so many women getting their time wasted
2: Ladies if you are not sure if you had one, then you haven’t had one, so you need to go to the toy store NOW.
3: There are rules for sex etiquette, gentleman ladies always go first. And if your man can’t handle that then get ya self a new one. If you’re a man reading this you need some more practice boo.
4: Sex is mental and confidence is key- for both men and women. Your energy sets the tone and if you are happy and content with your self, your partner will receive better outcomes. Example, I was raised to not rely on a man for many things and I realized that has a large part to do with my mentality during sex. I know I am confident enough to get the job done, but lover boy still has to put in werrrrk-and together the outcome usually is great. 👏☺️
5: A healthy sex life increases blood flow, therefore helping to increase hair growth. Your hair and skin is nourished by your blood. When you are more physically active in a positive way, it helps your hair grow and your skin glow.
Remember you are here because of a woman. We are goddesses that need to be worshipped.
Gentlemen here are some ways to make your goddess happier :
1: Discover her body...everyone is different . Take your time to set the tone to see what it is that your partner likes. “Energy can mean various things: Mostly it is used in science to describe how much potential a physical system has to change. In physics, energy is a property of matter and space, objects and fields. It can be transferred between objects and can also be converted in form.”
Energy sets the tone for everything. Plus the longer the anticipation, the better the outcome. Figure out what she likes and then bam, go for it -with her consent!
2: Don’t you keep your hands off of her. I don’t give a shit if you’re just keeping it on her shoulder....don’t just lay there and be a lazy fuck.
3: If you love her kiss her...if not then don’t make this more passionate than it needs to be just keeps your hands on her and keep it moving.
4: Sex is mental. Relax and remember pleasure is the ultimate goal during these actions and if you are too focused on feeling pressured to perform, you will have a harder time achieving a happy goal.
5: Props are fun! If you need to pull some extra tricks out of the bag don’t be afraid to use them. This includes toys, blind folds, ties, food...whatever makes you happy as long as you and your partner are on the same page. No one wants surprise butt plugs !
So guys in the midst of the moment, be a gentleman and make sure she is done before you. After a few tries if it’s not happening ladies then leave, the world is your oyster and someone else’s dick will be your pearl. Life is too short to have sex without an orgasm, that’s just a waste of time and energy. Don’t waste time and energy. Be fruitful and tend to your loins!
Safely tend to your loins...use protection! Don’t be a stooopid...we can’t see STD’s and sometimes symptoms can take months to appear. Check yo’ self before you wreck yo’ self.
